compromise

THE POWER OF COMPROMISE

ive just learned the power of compromise...
the most difficult thing about loving is compromise...
they say that if you love someone then it shouldn't matter what you think... and you therefore should yield...

it sounds well but then, what about the things you strongly believe in? what about your frustrations? you ideals? your demands? your own satisfaction?

i used to think that people should meet halfway all the time... ive gone a mile, you do the next... ive done this, you do the other...

love is not making a compromise... it is not doing your half and leaving him to accomplish the rest... love is not demanding you've done as much and so he has to do his turn... love is not measured by your power to persuade... love is taking a step, then reaching for his hand and taking his step with him...

cus u cannot expect everyone to be as you are... no one can read exactly what you want... not even him... so if you want him to stay, look him in the eye and coax him to come nearer... and he'll stay... i know he will... just tell him.